Headstrong Health: The Psychology of Getting Fit

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I may be a bit of a nerd, but I am fascinated with the brain and the way neurotransmitters (NTs for short) effect -and are affected!- by our behavior. The idea that we can change our brain chemical layout is pretty amazing.

The article below talks about what serotonin, dopamine, and other NT’s do during eating disorders, but also about what we can do to re-route them into better behavior. What’s even cooler is that by changing these behaviors, we can actually alter the levels of the NTs in our brain.

Read it here:

http://www.eatingdisorder-institute.com/?tag=neurotransmitters

The Dilemma:

After a 5am gym appointment, why on earth did I come to work and want a cookie? (Or 2?)

It might have to do with the fact that

1. It was THERE

2. I was tired. My previous conditioning was that when I felt tired, I would react by eating. Especially carbohydrates… simple carbohydrates. Aka the ‘s’ word.

3. It’s sugar.. sweet, tempting, and so willing to jump right in and wreak havoc on your insides.

The Analysis:

So here’s my thought process when trying to recondition myself and stop an undesirable behavior.

1. Do I really want this? (Am I being present?) This is the hardest thing to determine. There are a wide variety of factors that cause you to reach for food to ingest that is detrimental to your body. 

2. Is this part of my cycles?  Be sure to track your physical and emotional cycles. These cycles include emotions, stressed, tired, or overwhelmed;  transitions; disruptions in daily rhythms and routines; hormonal (i.e. time of month).  Knowing your cycles and finding cues to remind yourself in moments of weakness is key; it is the first step in mastering your behavior. 

3. What part of me wants this- my body, my mind, or my spirit?

A. BODY: Truly hungry- experiencing hunger pains, fatigue/sense of passing out, lack of energy due to low fuel source

B. MIND: Mental dialogue is saying you “SHOULD” eat. Maybe after a workout, or you “haven’t had enough” today. This type of urge is spurred by outside influences- like an article you read or something you heard.  You hear your inner chatter giving you reasons and excuses. 

C.SPIRIT: Something is missing, and you’re trying to fill a void. What you really want may be peace. Maybe you have something else you want to accomplish. 

D. EGO: Deep down there is a part of you that wants to stay stuck in your same cycle of habits. That part of you wants to stay conditioned because it’s easy- it’s not fulfilling, or joyful, but it’s easy and it doesn’t take a lot of discipline, self-awareness, or critical thought. This part of you justifies that you “deserve” it, but doesn’t take into account your goals for becoming your highest self. 

4. How will I feel after? Will I feel pleasure, more energetic, guilty, out of control?  A typical cycle may be: pleasure at first, then a sense of being out of control, then guilty, then later experiencing a sugar crash. You may convince yourself you can eat just one, but your body may get primed and want more junky “food.”

5. How will I feel if I take the opposite/higher action that is in line with my values and goals? Disciplined, clean, healthy, guilt-free, free from conditioning, one step closer to my goals.

6. More importantly! Assuming I am not actually physically hungry, and I don’t want to struggle with this anymore…

What can I do to make this better for myself the next time around? How can I replace this behavior with a better one that lines up with my goals– how can I recondition myself?

This is an opportunity to choose a new behavior. Many suggestions include choosing a better food– but we’re going to take it to the next level,  push our discipline, and use this  for growth. Challenge yourself to choose an action that has nothing to do with eating or nutrition. Instead, use this as an opportunity to make progress in another realm of your life. Meditation, Yoga, stretching, doing pushups, squats, lunges, pullups, reading, prayer, writing, studying, finishing tasks and tackling things you procrastinate on, playing a musical instrument, and catering to your relationships can all help channel your energy into something more productive. Any activity that you see in line with your highest self is a fruitful endeavors that will give you a sense of accomplishment, and help you to fade out  the unwanted behavior.

Slowly but surely, by choosing new behaviors in your minor day-to-day struggles, you will makeover your lifestyle to align with your goals.

The Facts:

Just to pound it home, sugar is not the solution.

Current emotional constructs surrounding sugar are as follows: happy happy joy joy, smiling children, colorful foods.. the media has hyped up high-sugar content foods because they are CHEAP and they are ADDICTING.

Sodas, candy, and other packaged confections are a cocktail of chemicals and  highly processed “food stuff.” White sugar adds calories, while non-calorie sweeteners make chemical changes in the brain resulting in desire for more sweet foods at the most innocent, and migraines and cancer at its most heinous. Just because they are in foods doesn’t mean they’re innocent: Aspartame was rejected multiple times before finally getting slight approval, and that’s only because the person trying to pass it got into the organization.

Nutritional life is much easier when you steer clear of sugary foods, and the habits and influences that had you eating them in the first place.

Suggested Readings:

Skinny Bitch – Rory Freedman and Kim Barnouin

Food Rules – Michael Pollan

http://www.womens-wellbeing-and-mental-health.com/Premenstrual-Cravings.html

My plan for tomorrow:

Breakfast: Veggie Egg Scramble- with Sriracha, as always

Lunch: Tuna Salad, Raw Vegetables including Broccoli, Celery, Tomato. (Might decide to add a little hummus or salad dressing to the veggie container in the morning).

Snack: Trail Mix (Raisins, Cashews, Almonds, “Craisins”) about 2-3oz  and a navel orange

Perhaps not for tomorrow, but made it anyway: Guacamole

1. Avocado-Tuna Salad

Nix the mayo and mix the Avocado. (Me gusta el aguacate)

Canned tuna (in water to reduce sodium)

Drained the tuna and mixed in avocado, cilantro, and celery. I love me a good crunch in my tuna salad.

Avocado contains healthy fats and antioxidants. Its creamy consistency and mild taste are great for mixing in any type of salad. (It’s high in calories, however, so I didn’t overdo it. I used about half an avocado and made guac with the rest- Recipe below).

2. Veggie Egg Scramble

Next, I sauteed broccoli, tomato, and onion. Scrambled it with 6 eggs so I can divide it up for breakfast over the next 3 days at work. TIP: Use low heat when cooking eggs. 

Breakfast and lunch are ready for tomorrow 🙂

But wait, there’s more!

3. Guacamole 

One does not simply let ripe avocados sit. Mine were starting to turn, so I took the other half of my avocado, opened 2 more, and made Uncle Armando’s Legendary Guacamole – Ole!

The back story: My Aunt Mary studied in Mexico for a few years. In her apartment complex, she met Armando. They began to fall for eachother, but she had to move back to the United States. So for one full year, all they did was exchange letters. He moved to the US, and they were married. 30+ years later, he is the guacamole champion of all the parties. Anywhere Uncle Armando’s guac has gone, it has become the requested dish. If there is no guac at a family party, we feel empty.

So here it is.. but I have to admit, I have never done it quite like him. He claims you must use the perfect avocado, but even if he handed it to me, there’s something magic about the way he does it.. Nonetheless, let’s try it:

1. Perfectly Ripe Avocadoes.  All black, no toughness or brown spots, but not soft with any brown spots.

2. Fresh Limes

3. Salt

Slice the avocado long-ways. Bang your knife into the pit and twist to remove easily. Use a spoon to scoop out the insides, making sure to take out brown spots and the little knot at the ends. Use a fork to mash it up into a creamy consistency. Add 1/2 lime and 1tsp salt, or to taste. I prefer to chop fresh cilantro as Chipotle does.

Simple. Creamy. Delicious.

Have a great day all!

The body can be either like a well trained puppy or a defiant, mischievous child.

Choose your highest vision of yourself, and train it well.

Chances are you have conditioned your body to expect you to allow it some pretty unhealthy behaviors. If so, chances are even higher that those behaviors don’t exactly line up with your ideal vision of yourself. Just as a dog expects a treat after a walk, for example, your body is obedient. It remembers how you have treated it, not only in physical manifestation (i.e. excess fat is there to pop out and say, “I remember how you ate!”) but also in neural connections (i.e. false hunger cravings, like, “after dinner, we want dessert.”). Now, get ready for the big stick of responsibility here — you taught it that. I promise you, after a vitamin-efficient serving of vegetables, your body doesn’t want white sugar-laden dairy lard. That isn’t a natural response.

Have you ever seen comics about training a dog? The one where it says, Week 1: Dog is not allowed in bedroom or kitchen, and Week 5 ends with the dog eating at the table and sleeping on your pillow? That is precisely what happens with your body. Letting it do something sporadically is confusing. Saying you want sexy abs and those little back dimples is contradicted when you allow the behavior of fiending on “just one (aka 3)” pastries at work. All your actions- no “little” exceptions- should line up with your declared goals.

But.. I DESERVE it, don’t I?

Ah, I knew he’d come out. Let me introduce you to your inner child. No, not the playful, reminiscent, joyous, lighthearted child. THIS child is not our friend. I call mine “The Brat.” My Inner Brat does not want me to be the epitome of health and fitness that I want to see myself as . The inner brat wants me to stuff my face with sugar, fat, and simple carbohydrates despite not being hungry and having no nutritional value. My inner brat did not want see me conquer emotional eating. It likes you when you are not at your highest potential because it gets what it wants. It wants to keep you the way you are so it can keep complaining, stay undisciplined, and never reach your goals. It is essentially the way your ego self-handicaps you from becoming the real you.  Your body will go along with him at first, mimicking him by sending you false hunger symptoms. But it quite literally is all in your head, in your neural connections that you have solidified by giving in to The Brat. If you sit silently and listen deeper than the whining of your brat, you will realize your body sits quietly and needs nothing.

The best way to approach this is by patting the little brat on the head, taking reigns and realize YOU know what’s best for yourself, just as a parent knows what’s best for its child. A parent wouldn’t let a child run out into the street– why would you let your Brat decide the fate of your health? Your body is the victim here. Your body knows when it is being neglected, mistreated, or judged unfairly. Love it, and show it you care for it by making fit, clean decisions.

Giving in “once in a while” to habits that go against your goals sets your mind-body connection to random. Aligning your behavior patterns with your highest goals in mind sets you up for success. Aligning your actions with your best self is the simplest way to health- and your best you.

 

Take Home Practices:

“Am I doing this to cope with something emotionally?”  or “Is it my body that wants this, or is my inner brat just used to getting it? Does it make me closer to my goals?”

“What are the excuses I’m telling myself right now?”

My favorite: “What would my ideal self do right now?” (e.g. “What would my personal trainer self do?” “What would my health guru self do?”)

 

Suggested Reading:

“How Successful People Think” – John C. Maxwell

“Reinventing the Body, Resurrecting the Soul” – Deepak Chopra